{"id":6857,"date":"2016-06-30T12:58:42","date_gmt":"2016-06-30T12:58:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.monsterindia.com\/career-advice\/do-you-have-a-difficult-boss-try-these-7-tips-to-win-him-over-6857\/"},"modified":"2023-10-09T14:19:04","modified_gmt":"2023-10-09T08:49:04","slug":"do-you-have-a-difficult-boss-try-these-7-tips-to-win-him-over","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.founditgulf.com\/career-advice\/do-you-have-a-difficult-boss-try-these-7-tips-to-win-him-over\/","title":{"rendered":"Do you have a difficult boss? Try these 7 tips to win him over"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto\" src=\"http:\/\/media.monsterindia.com\/cmsimages\/1467271400.jpg\" alt=\"handling difficult boss\" width=\"650\" height=\"619\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">A good boss can open up new growth opportunities for you while a difficult one can put your career at risk. You&#8217;re lucky if you have a good boss but you can\u2019t just walk away from someone you don\u2019t go well with. <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">Here are seven ways to deal with a difficult boss and keep growing:<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">1. Don&#8217;t let work get affected<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">Quite often, one tries to score with a difficult boss by working slower or taking leave. This approach backfires; you increase your workload and spoil relations with other team members. No matter how difficult your boss it to work with, make sure your performance is unaffected.<br \/>\n<\/span><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">2. Be proactive<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">If you are dealing with a micro manager, stay a step ahead by anticipating your boss&#8217;s requirements. Get things done ahead of time. This way you minimize the need for reminders and make him realize you are aware of your responsibilities.<br \/>\n<\/span><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">3. Understanding your boss<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">Before trying to fix a situation, make sure there\u2019s one. Evaluate whether your boss\u2019 behavior is a personality trait or he is behaving under any pressure. This can make a difference in how you approach the situation. Not every boss is the same. Understanding why your boss does certain things can give an insight into their management style and you can adapt accordingly.<br \/>\n<\/span><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">4. Patience is the key<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">Timing is everything when you have a conflict with your boss. Instead of taking the situation head on, it is always better to wait and discuss only when things cool down.<br \/>\n<\/span><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">5. Know their triggers<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">If your boss has anger management problems, identify what triggers reactions. Avoid those triggers like the plague! For example, if you know s\/he gets angry if you are late, always reach the workplace on time. Being mindful of small details that trigger certain behaviors will help avoid problems.<br \/>\n<\/span><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">6. Be attentive and clarify things<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">One good way to deal with a demanding boss is to make sure you listen carefully as directions may come quickly. If you are unsure about anything, clarify by relaying back the instructions. It\u2019s a good idea to always repeat deliverables that you are responsible for to make sure that you both are on the same page.<br \/>\n<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\"><strong>7. Put everything down<\/strong> <\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">It is important to document interactions with your boss \u2013 requests, directions or criticisms &#8211; so you can go back to them if they contradict themselves. Create a trail of all requests and your output. If you receive a verbal direction, follow it up with an email to confirm.<br \/>\n<\/span><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">5 things to do when the boss behaves horribly<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">\u2022 Stay positive <\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">\u2022 Be a problem solver, not a problem maker<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">\u2022 Always be courteous <\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">\u2022 Don\u2019t take things personally. <\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">\u2022 Don\u2019t be a punching bag<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif\">If you still can&#8217;t find a way to work together, maybe it&#8217;s time to Find Better. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.monstergulf.com?spl=GF_contmar&amp;WT.mc_n=olm_sk_INTCC_AID_6776_GF_contmar\">Click here to search and apply for a job<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A good boss can open up new growth opportunities for you while a difficult one can put your career at risk. You&#8217;re lucky if you have a good boss but you can\u2019t just walk away from someone you don\u2019t go well with. 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